Finding myself again

for the past month i've been listening to pretty much nothing but Against Me! I will listen to something else, but always go right back.

The music is hitting me in a way that i haven't felt in a long time. I am remembering why i fell in love with music. Why i always loved punk music. The way it makes me feel. I actually feel. Thats probably the thing.

I have been living numb for longer than anyone knows or realizes. Those around me see a recovered girl. I put on a good front. I am no doubt a lot better than i used to be- but the days are still hard. Add in the miscarriage and the days can be horrendous.

Laura's words are helping me feel. Helping in a way that is hard to explain. She is an inspiration in so many ways. And i aspire to be the same way. To be confident in who i am, and what my struggle is. And to over come it. Having had an eating disorder for pretty much my whole life- her words are extremely relatable. The uncomfortableness with your body, never feeling like you were what you were supposed to be. I felt that forever.

I also don't feel like a real woman. That is the hardest thought process right now. I am at war with my body in more than one way- and i am losing. The infertility has robbed me of my feelings of womanhood. I don't know how to fully process that, or change those feelings. Losing the baby stole a part of my womanhood- but infertility took the rest. So the current battle to feel like a woman everyday is something that Laura's words are helping with.

Again my words are not forming properly. Which is frustrating me a lot today. I promise i am much more eloquent usually, but for some reason words are not forming the sentences i want today.